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Cancer Survivors: Lessons Learned and Advice for Warriors

This Cancer Survivor's Day, we partnered with our community to share their journeys through diagnosis and treatment, along with their heartfelt advice for others facing similar battles. Read on to be inspired by their stories and insights.

–Tirzah (Breast Cancer Survivor)

"Two years ago, I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer at the age of 36. As a survivor, I now live my life to the absolute fullest, because tomorrow isn’t promised. The most important lesson I have learned is to be grateful, and to live a life surrounded by the people you love.
You are going to be amazed at how strong you really are. There will be incredibly difficult days, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and you are not alone. You will come out of this a changed person, but I promise you will have a new appreciation and perspective on life when you do. You are a warrior, and you are capable of anything you put your mind to."
  
"When I was diagnosed with stage 4 Hodgkin’s lymphoma at 29, my world was turned upside down. The most important lesson I've learned through my journey as a cancer survivor is the transformative power of perspective. I chose to see cancer as an opportunity to fulfill my passion for art and spend time with those closest to me.
To someone just diagnosed with cancer, I would advise finding something that brings you joy and purpose every day, whether it's painting, caring for a pet, or any other activity that you love. When I was diagnosed, the symptoms and treatment side effects were overwhelming, and my independence felt stripped away. However, focusing on my passion for art gave me a sense of accomplishment and direction. Even small achievements can lead to significant personal growth. Stay hopeful, lean on your support system, and find something that inspires you to keep moving forward."

"The most important lesson I have learned throughout my cancer experience has been the importance of a supportive community. I felt incredibly isolated in my experience, which often led to invalidating my own thoughts. Finding a community has quite literally saved my life.
  1. Remember, none of this is your fault; cancer can happen to anyone.
  2. Get a good therapist and talk to them regularly.
  3. Reach out to the cancer community. It is true what they say: worst club, best members. I have found deep meaningful friendships within the cancer community and so much of my healing is contributed to them
  4. Plan joy days in between treatment where cancer cannot be a topic of conversation."

–Kayla (TNBC Survivor) 

I was diagnosed with stage 2 TNBC at the age of 33. To celebrate National Cancer Survivors day, I wanted to share a lesson I have learned in the early stages of survivorship. Life is beautiful and it is a gift not to be wasted. Love your people hard and embrace every adventure. Make the memories, book the trip and enjoy your life!

Some advice I would like to pass on for anyone who is newly diagnosed👇🏻

  1. Advocate for yourself, bring a second set of ears to your appointments and trust your intuition when it comes to treatment options, doctors, etc.
  2. Stay off of Google; instead, ask others who have been down this journey before. We are here for you!
  3. Accept the help of your friends and loved ones. Listen to your body and rest when you need to rest.
  4. Do not think of all of the steps; instead, take it one day at a time, one treatment at a time.
  5. Most importantly, breathe; it’s going to be okay 🫶🏻

 

–Paige (Breast Cancer Survivor)


“Survivorship is weird & wonderful. Some days, I feel stronger than ever, I share my story, and I educate those around me. Other days, I feel weak & want to clam up, pretending it never happened. Both of those feelings are normal, valid & can coexist. We just can't get stuck at the peak or trough of the wave. We have to keep riding it.

When I was first diagnosed, I was stuck at the breaking point, getting beaten & thrown around by the wave. At first, I was trying to keep my head above water alone. Then, my support team taught me how to swim past that point & how to float. I still fell off the float, struggled to get back on, and got caught under the waves again, but this time, I had the skills & support to pull me up. I learned to ask for help, to not be ashamed of struggling, and to keep pushing forward until I got to the point I could handle things again.”

2 Responses

Michael  mach

Michael mach

July 15, 2024

sad but very true stories. Very inspiring for people that are now diagnosed with cancer. this message needs to get out to other people diagnosed with cancer. this would be a fantastic help to them.In Canada there is the bloom club . Young women that have gone through cancer have other women to talk to .

Michael  mach

Michael mach

June 03, 2024

sad but very true stories. Very inspiring for people that are now diagnosed with cancer. this message needs to get out to other people diagnosed with cancer. this would be a fantastic help to them.

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